http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1999-04238-001
I find that after the Form 5 SPM exam, students are really confused as to how to proceed with their studies. There was help at the school level after the SPM exam and students applied for likely places they wish to go. But the brunt of the problem is, they cannot decide where to go without the SPM results. Without the SPM results, they can only wish where they want to go after Form 5.
I was a bit agitated by many things that happened to my daughter who took the Form 5 SPM exam and waited for things to come her way. While waiting for her results, it really bothered me as to how she controlled her life having completed Form 5 SPM. Here are some of the things which I think something should be done about:
- SPM results come out very late and in the following year. That's about 6 months grace.
- I'm very surprised to find out that the school leaver today doesn't have clear ideas (vague) and is rather undecided as to what to do with her life.
- I find that my daughter listens to her friends who have short-term clear-cut ideas and target where they were going and what jobs they wanted to take on. Most only wanted to become an operator or a sales rep in the shops in the town where we live. I could not believe it that school leavers today would have such short-term happiness (get a job). Don't they even think of going further beyond 5th form? I didn't agree with my daughter just wanting to become a sales rep in a shop in front of the place where I work. I had to advise her. It was really necessary.
- How do I motivate my own daughter to go beyond just a simple work at the shops? How do I tell her to go beyond what her classmates have agreed to do? Will she listen to me or to her 'lifetime' friends?
- Continue at the old school and do Form 6. She said Form 6 today is different and is only for 1.5 years. She didn't quite accept the idea as many of her friends decided to stop school and had started working. She would be starting school with a bunch of unknown students and have to make new friends.
- Stick to the Arts stream. She agreed for reasons known to her.
- After she completes Form 6, and with a HSC, she has a better choice of universities to go to. Agreed.
- I can help pay for her studies in Form 6 and any local university of her choice. Agreed.
- Take up car driving for a driver's license so she can drive to school. Agreed. Now she has a license.
- I gave her a car and a motorcycle.
- I gave her a house key.
- I bought her a new set of school uniforms which were necessary.
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